Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
Margaret Paul, Ph.D. is the best-selling author and co-author of eight books, including "Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You?" and “Healing Your Aloneness.” She is the co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding® healing process. Learn Inner Bonding now! Visit her web site for a FREE Inner Bonding course: http://www.innerbonding.com or email her at margaret@innerbonding.com. Phone sessions available.
Articles by this Author
Why Do You Blame?
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 11/22/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
Take a moment to think about who you blame for your feelings of hurt, anger, resentment, aloneness, emptiness, loneliness, helplessness, inadequacy, shame, depression, anxiety, fear, and so on What is really going on inside when you blame someone else for your feelings
Verbal Abuse, Emotional Abuse - Overt and Covert
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 11/3/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
Our society is filled with verbal and emotional abuse, from radio and TV commentators and presidential candidates, to parents, educators, employers and managers As Patricia Evans states in "The Verbally Abusive Relationship", the old adage, "Sticks and stones can break my bones but words will never hurt me," is not at all true
Connecting With Loved Ones
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 10/30/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
As social beings, our desire for connection is a deep and powerful force within us Babies who do not experience connection with a caregiver do not thrive or may even die
7 Rules For Saving Your Marriage
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 10/22/2008
- Marriage
- Unrated
Is your marriage in trouble
The first question you need to ask yourself is: "Do I want to save this marriage or do I want to leave it
Relationships: Empathy Vs. Responsibility For Feelings
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 10/20/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
William grew up with a mother who was depressed much of her life As the oldest of three children with a father who was not around much, William took on a lot of responsibility for his mother's wellbeing
Relationships: Letting Go of Problem Solving
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 10/1/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
"We never seem to be able to solve any problems," Kaylee told me in a phone session "Every time we sit down to solve a problem, we end up fighting
How Can I Stop Feeling Jealous?
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 09/5/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
"I know that my boyfriend loves me, but he has a lot of women friends I don't get why he has to have so many women friends
You're Not Meeting My Needs
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 09/2/2008
- Marriage
- Unrated
"Sandra wants to end our marriage," Ted told me in our phone session "She says that I am not meeting her needs
Emotional Intimacy
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 08/21/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
Experiencing emotional intimacy with others is one of the most satisfying experiences of life Emotional intimacy, or a sense of deep connection with another person or a group of people, occurs when each person is completely open hearted and devoted to taking 100% responsibility for their own feelings and needs
Is Your Relationship Suffering From Emotional Infidelity?
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 08/1/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
Emotional infidelity occurs when you or your partner become emotionally connected with someone outside your relationship, either in person or on the Internet
How dangerous to a marriage or committed relationship is emotional infidelity
Marriage Advice: Love And Fairness
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 05/27/2008
- Marriage
- Unrated
"Love has nothing to do with fairness Love is Love
Relationship Advice: Be Willing To Have Your Partner Be Upset With You
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 04/28/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
As a relationships counselor, I often work with people who are unhappy in their relationship and thinking of leaving They believe that they are unhappy because of their partner, but the real reason is that they are not taking responsibility for their own feelings within the relationship
Love And Marriage: Do They Really Go Together?
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 04/23/2008
- Marriage
- Unrated
Do love and marriage really go together like a horse and carriage For some they do but for many they don't
Saving Your Marriage When You Have Children
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 04/14/2008
- Marriage
- Unrated
Research indicates that, unless there is violence in the home, children are better off being raised by an intact family Whenever clients who have children call to work with me on their marriage, I always encourage them to do all they can to save their marriage
Marriage Help: If You Are Thinking Of Getting A Divorce, Think Again!
- By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
- Published 04/1/2008
- Relationships
- Unrated
Are you thinking of getting a divorce because:
* Your spouse is physically abusive with you or with your children
* Your spouse is an alcoholic or drug addict and has no intention of dealing with the addiction
